Tuesday, May 10, 2011

The last time

This is a picture of the last time we were all together as a Swigert clan.  It was Grace and cousin Aubrey's blessing day on  Sunday, June 13, 2010.  Aubrey and Grace were born 4 days apart!

Shortly after this photo was taken, Ryan's older brother Jason (holding other infant--Aubrey) moved to Arizona to accept a job as an Internal Medicine Doctor, and we left for Iowa City to start Ryan's residency.

I especially like how both Nicole and myself (mothers of the two newborns) have our shoes off in the picture!  That's from being barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen for so long we forgot what shoes felt like!

Actually it's really from EXHAUSTION and STRESS.  Both of us moved across the country 2 weeks after giving birth.   I have no plans to ever do that again--it was enough fun to last me a life time.

Well, next week the entire Swigert clan will be together again.  Ready or not Utah, here we all come!

This time we are taking our fun to the Sherwood Hills resort near Logan, Utah.  That's right.  A little golfing, relaxing by the pool, game playing, visiting the Logan cemetery.  It's all going to be done in excellent Swigert fashion, and hopefully without any "Swigert luck!"

Catching some much needed rest at Ryan's sister's house after our trek from Richmond, VA to Utah. (Here is some proof Jen, that I wasn't holding up so well without my Frances!!)
"Ahhh, I love my cousin Lizzy!  What a great place to pick my nose."

"Isn't it so nice of her to cart me around on her back? And she has the perfect sleeve to wipe by buggers on!"


Doesn't the Dr. look dashing, and oh so proud?

THE END






Cameron, no standing on your tip-toes for the next family photo.  You are making everyone else look short.

Monday, May 9, 2011

Can't figure it out--NEED HELP!

Dear Robin and Rue Readers,

Ryan has tried all evening to fix my laptop so I can upload pictures  into my blog posts.  We keep getting the "server rejected" message and the photos won't post.  Please help!  Anyone??

It works fine on my downstairs computer--hence my last post with pictures, but my laptop is NOT working.  I would walk downstairs and use that computer but all my photos are already on the laptop.

So this post pretty much stinks!   

On a brighter note, we have been busy at work here at the Swigert household preparing for our upcoming Utah visit starting this Saturday-- on Gracie's 1st Birthday might I add!

 My "to-do" lists are made, and I am checking them twice.

Today, I ALMOST got my fridge cleaned out,  and I ALMOST started doing all the laundry.  I did get 4 cupboards in my kitchen cleaned and organized and my coat closet is also in pristine condition as well tonight.  And none of this cleaning has anything to do with getting ready to travel this weekend --except cleaning out the fridge.

So why in heck am I bothering to do it?

Because when I look at all my lists and see my piles of laundry, my mind starts screaming--"NEED HELP---can't figure it out!!"

Friday, May 6, 2011

The Highs of Motherhood

With Mother's Day approaching this Sunday, I want to share with you one of my favorite moments as a Mother.

Jace meeting Grace for the first time.
Look at Robin's face!

This picture was taken around 2:00 pm on Friday, May 14, 2010.  Grace was born that morning at 11:38am at Henrico Doctors Hospital in Richmond, Virginia.  After I was moved out of labor and delivery into my room, Jace came with his Grammy Jill to the hospital to see her.

He was absolutely thrilled with his new sister!

And just seeing this picture makes me want two more.  What do you say my handsome Dr.?










Thursday, May 5, 2011

It's the hard-knock life


Moments before Ryan falls asleep.  He is tellling me about his horrific day!

It's the hard-knock life for us. It's the hard-knock life for us.  No one cares for you a smidge- when your in a residency!

Oh the life of a resident!  It really can't be beat.  The last 30 or so hours have gone down like this at our house.

Tuesday night, Ryan gets home from work around 6 pm with chills, fever and congestion.  He has been sick all day in the OR on his feet.  He has dinner, plays with his kids.  Goes to bed around 10 pm, falls asleep with 4 articles in his hand that he is supposed to have read by the next morning on anterior hip grafts because he will be assisting with one the next day.

Wednesday morning he gets to the hospital at 6:45am to round on patients.  Surgery almost always starts at 7:15am.  Ryan is in the OR all day -you know--for the anterior hip graft, and other surgeries. (Not sure if he got the articles read)

He walks in our door at 5:30pm on Wednesday night, has  been home 1 minute or less and his pager goes off--really.  He is on call until Thursday at 8:00am. A man with a severely infected tooth is on his way to the ER.  At 6:15 Ryan goes to the ER, cleans the infection and gets back home at 8:20pm.

At 8:30pm his pager goes off.  There is a post-op patient in severe pain, please call her. So he does. Then he calls in a prescription to Walgreen's. (Its kind-of weird to hear Ryan call himself Dr. Swigert and talk all Dr-like and prescribe pain meds etc. He sounds pretty hot when he does it--anyways I think so!)

He gets off the phone by 9:15 and eats dinner, plays with Jace and Grace and we put them to bed.  Around 10:15 his pager goes off again.  The ER tells him that an 84 year old man who had several extractions at the dental clinic a few days prior bumped his mouth and can't get the bleeding to stop.  Please call and talk to his wife.  So he does.

He gets off the phone by 10:40 and tells me that he will have to go in to see this patient.  The patient lives a little ways from the hospital.  They will probably not get there until 12:30 or 1 am.  We both feel bad for this 84 year old man and his 80 year old wife who have to drive to the hospital late at night.  I also feel bad for my sick, exhausted husband.  Ryan goes to bed.  I hear his pager go off at 1:20am.  I tell him goodbye.

I sleep lightly and have weird dreams waiting for Ryan to get back from the hospital. I worry about him.  I wake up completely at 5:14am.  Ryan is not home. I know his day starts at 6:00am with pre-rounding on patients and I assume he is asleep at the hospital.  I don't call him and go back to sleep and sleep until 8 am.

By 3:00pm I have heard nothing from Ryan.  I assume he is dead in a ditch somewhere. Not really-but the thought crosses my mind that maybe he fell asleep driving home from the hospital at 3am this morning and drove into a ditch.

At 4:00pm I text him.  Nothing.  I assume he is in surgery.

At 5:15 he walks in our front door EXHAUSTED and HUNGRY and I hear the rest of the story.

He never went to sleep last night.  He got finished re-shaping the 84 year old man's maxilla with a bone file, suturing, and thermal cauterizing by 4:00am.  Then a man with a buccal space infection came in, and it had to be treated immediately, it couldn't wait until the next day.  So he dealt with that until 5:15. 

He then had 45 minutes to get dressed in clean scrubs and move his car out of valet parking and pre- round on patients by 6:00am.  Not sure if he got breakfast.

He then faced a full day of surgery. During his 11:00am case, the patient wouldn't stop bleeding after surgery. It was supposed to end at 12:00 noon.  It took until 1:45 to get things under control.  He MISSED lunch and was 45 minutes behind the rest of the day.

But he finally gets home.  He takes a nap on the couch while Jace, Grace and I fix dinner.  We make salad and steam broccoli.  We are missing a main dish, so I load up the kids and go to Papa Murphy's for take and bake pizza.  Their garlic and white sause pizza with chicken, bacon and artichoke hearts is sooo good! We eat, he goes home teaching until about 8:45 pm. We put kids to bed and he is now in bed snoring next to me.

And guess what---it all starts over again tomorrow!  That's right! He is on call Friday--and then again on Sunday--and it goes round and round for 3 more years!

And to top it all off -my pictures won't post tonight. Frustrating! It's a hard-knock life for a blogger too! You'll have to check back later to see all the pictures I took of him asleep on the couch. No butt shots though --sorry.  It's the hard-knock life!!

Wednesday, May 4, 2011

Rue looked out the window

                                                         and what did she see?
                                                   Popcorn popping on the Apricot tree!

Spring has brought her such a nice surprise.
  Popcorn popping right before her eyes!

Tuesday, May 3, 2011

Did you know that...

everyone poops?

This is what Chistopher Robin learned today.  There was a shelf of books that his school was giving away today and this is the one he chose. 


I don't think this news had occurred to 4 year old Robin before and it required some serious contemplation on his part.  After all  "today is a pooping day"  he told me as he waltzed out of his school door with his book tucked under his arm.


 
Showing the book to Baby Gracie
 
And he was right!



Monday, May 2, 2011

The Life of a Daffodil


See the flower

Pick the flower

               Eat the flower             

Spit out the flower.

 If only they tasted as good as they looked!

Little Rue has been biting at the bit to get outside to see those daffodils and I got to be the one to show them to her for the first time!

 Does Motherhood get any better than this?